Mary Allen
Ke loaʻa ka ʻohana i kahi ʻīlio, a laila ʻo wai ke kuleana no ka mālama ʻana i kēlā me kēia lā?
I ka wā ma mua, ua ʻōlelo pinepine ʻia inā noʻonoʻo ka ʻohana e kiʻi i kahi ʻīlio, ʻoi aku ka mea nui o ka makuahine ma nā memo. ʻO ia, ma ke ʻano he wahine hale, aia ma ka hale i ka lā. ʻO ia ka mea i lawe pinepine i ke kuleana no ka hele wāwae, nā pilikia, a me ka hapa nui o ka mālama ʻana i kēlā me kēia lā.
Ke kuleana o kēlā me kēia kanaka
I kēia lā, ke hana nā kāne a me nā wahine ma waho o ka home, ʻokoʻa nā kūlana. No laila, he mea naʻauao ka hoʻoholo ʻana i nā kuleana a me nā kuleana i loko o ka ʻohana mai kinohi mai. He ʻoiaʻiʻo kēia inā ʻo ka makemake o ka ʻohana holoʻokoʻa e kiʻi i kahi ʻīlio. Aia kekahi o ka ʻohana e ʻōlelo ana "ʻOiaʻiʻo makemake wau i nā ʻīlio, akā ʻaʻohe oʻu manawa / makemake / ikaika e kōkua"? E mahalo a ʻike inā hiki i ka ʻohana ke hoʻoponopono. Inā makemake wale ʻoe i ka ʻohana i kahi ʻīlio, ʻaʻole hiki ke koi i ka hele wāwae a i ʻole ke kōkua me ka mālama hulu mai nā ʻohana ʻē aʻe. He ʻoiaʻiʻo nō paha makemake lākou e komo i ka mālama ʻana i ka ʻīlio ke hoʻohiwahiwa ʻia e ke hoa liʻiliʻi wāwae ʻehā. ʻOiai ʻaʻohe ou kuleana e hana i kekahi koi. Akā, ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo e hāʻule koke nā kuleana a pau ma luna o ke kanaka i ka wā i pau ai ka leʻaleʻa o ka nūhou inā ʻo ka ʻohana holoʻokoʻa ka hoʻoholo a me ka makemake i ka ʻīlio.
Ke kuleana e like me ka makahiki a me ka hiki
ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole hiki i nā keiki liʻiliʻi ke lawe i ke kuleana nui. Eia naʻe, hiki iā lākou ke komo a kōkua. ʻO ke ana ʻana i ka ʻai ʻīlio, ka lawe ʻana i ke kaula i ka wā e hele wāwae ai, kōkua i ka palaki ʻana i ka hulu e hiki ke mālama i ka mea liʻiliʻi loa. I nā makahiki, hiki ke hoʻonui i nā hana. Inā nā keiki ma ke kula waena a i ʻole ka wā ʻōpio e ʻōlelo nei i ka uliuli no ka ʻīlio - a laila e lawe lākou i ke kuleana no ka hele wāwae ma hope o ke kula. ʻOiai he ua. He kuleana nui ka lawe ʻana i kahi mea ola, a ʻo nā keiki a me nā ʻōpio pū kekahi e aʻo. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka ʻae ʻana i nā keiki e lawe i ke kuleana no ka hele wāwae wale nō ke pili inā hiki i ke keiki ke mālama i ka ʻīlio. Inā he ʻīlio nui, ikaika, a paʻa ʻole paha ka ʻīlio, hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i nā hana ʻē aʻe, e like me ka mālama hulu a i ʻole ka hoʻōla ʻana. Pono nā ʻīlio āpau i ka hoʻoulu manaʻo. Inā ʻaʻole maikaʻi me ka hele wāwae, hiki i ke keiki nui ke kuleana no ka hapalua hola o ka hoʻōla ʻana i ka lā, e like me ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i nā hana hoʻopunipuni, hana ihu, agility home, a i ʻole ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa hoʻolohe maʻalahi.
I ka wā e pili ana i nā mākua i loko o ka ʻohana, ʻoiaʻiʻo, nui nā mea e pili ana i nā wahi kuleana. Malia paha he ʻoi aku ka hana o kekahi o ʻoukou ma mua o kekahi a i ʻole he mau makemake ʻē aʻe kekahi. Akā inā makemake ʻoe e lawe i nā papa a pau, hoʻomaʻamaʻa a hele i nā ala hele a pau, maikaʻi paha ke kaʻana like i kekahi manawa. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke hiamoe i hoʻokahi lā o ka pule ke lawe kekahi i ka uluna kakahiaka? Maikaʻi nō hoʻi ke ʻike i ka mea nāna e hōʻoiaʻiʻo i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka ʻīlio i ka ʻai i kona manawa i hoʻonohonoho ʻia, kūʻai i ka meaʻai ma ka home, ʻoki i nā maiʻu, mālama i ka mālama ʻana i nā lāʻau lapaʻau, a me nā mea like.
I ka wā e pili ana i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana a me ka hānai ʻana, ʻike pinepine ʻia i ke kanaka ke kuleana nui. Akā, pono nā mea a pau o ka ʻohana e ʻike a hahai i nā "rula ʻohana" i hoʻoholo ʻia. Pono nā kānaka a pau e ʻike, a mahalo, inā pāpā ʻia ka ʻīlio ma luna o kahi moe, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hāʻawi i ka meaʻai ma ka papaʻaina, e hoʻomaloʻo mau i kou mau wāwae ma hope o ka hele ʻana, a i ʻole nā mea āu e ʻae ai i kēia manawa. Inā ʻaʻole, e maʻalahi ka huikau no ka ʻīlio, inā he mau lula ʻokoʻa kāu.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki ke loli nā kūlana i ka wā o ke ola o ka ʻīlio; neʻe ka poʻe ʻōpio mai ka home, hoʻololi kekahi i nā hana, a me nā mea ʻē aʻe, akā he mea naʻauao mau ke hoʻolālā. A ʻoi aku ka nui o ka poʻe o ka ʻohana e pili ana i ke ola o ka ʻīlio i kēlā me kēia lā, ʻoi aku ka ikaika o ka pilina. E ʻoi aku ka palekana o ka ʻīlio inā he nui ka poʻe i hilinaʻi ʻia iā ia, a ʻo ka mea nona ke kuleana nui hiki ke ʻoluʻolu ke lawe ʻia e kekahi.