Introduction: Nā hōʻailona o ke aloha ikaika i nā ʻīlio

Ma ke ʻano he mau ʻīlio, he mea maʻamau ke noʻonoʻo i ka nui o ke aloha o kā mākou mau hoa huluhulu iā mākou. ʻOiai ʻike ʻia nā ʻīlio no ko lākou ʻano aloha, hiki i kekahi ke hōʻike ikaika i ko lākou aloha ma mua o nā mea ʻē aʻe. Aia nā hōʻailona like ʻole e hōʻike ana i ke aloha ikaika o kāu ʻīlio iā ʻoe, a ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i kēia mau hōʻailona hiki ke hoʻoikaika i ka pilina ma waena o ʻoe a me kāu pipi. Ma kēia ʻatikala, e ʻimi mākou i kekahi o nā hōʻailona maʻamau e hōʻike ana i ke aloha o kāu ʻīlio iā ʻoe.

Hoʻonui ʻia ka ʻike maka a me ka nānā ʻana

ʻO kekahi o nā hōʻailona maʻamau i loaʻa i kāu ʻīlio ke aloha ikaika iā ʻoe ʻo ia ka hoʻonui ʻia ʻana o ka maka a me ka maka. Ke nānā nā ʻīlio i kou mau maka, hoʻokuʻu lākou i kahi hormone i kapa ʻia ʻo oxytocin, ʻo ia hoʻi ka "hormone aloha". ʻO kēia hormone ke kuleana no ka hoʻokumu ʻana i ka pilina ma waena o ʻoe a me kāu pipi, a ʻo ia ka hormone like i hoʻokuʻu ʻia i ka wā e pūliki ai a hoʻopā paha kekahi i kekahi. Inā nānā pinepine kāu ʻīlio iā ʻoe, he hōʻailona ia e pili pono ana iā ʻoe.

Ka Huli a me ka ʻōlelo kino

ʻO kekahi hōʻailona ʻoi aku ka ikaika o ke aloha o kāu ʻīlio iā ʻoe, ʻo ia ka wili ʻana o kona huelo a me ka ʻōlelo kino. Ke hauʻoli a hauʻoli paha nā ʻīlio, e wili pinepine lākou i ko lākou huelo me ka ikaika, a e hoʻomaha a hāmama ka ʻōlelo o ko lākou kino. Inā hoʻokipa kāu ʻīlio iā ʻoe me ka huelo wili a me ke kino ʻoluʻolu, he hōʻailona ia e hauʻoli lākou e ʻike iā ʻoe a palekana i kou alo. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, inā paʻa ka huelo o kāu ʻīlio ma waena o kona mau wāwae a i ʻole e makaʻu ana, he hōʻailona ia e makaʻu a hopohopo paha.

Hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli i kou hoʻi ʻana mai

ʻIke ʻia nā ʻīlio no ko lākou hauʻoli i ka wā e hoʻi ai nā mea nona ka home, akā inā ʻoi aku ka ikaika o ke aloha o kāu ʻīlio iā ʻoe, e ʻoi aku ko lākou hauʻoli. Hiki iā lākou ke lele i luna a i lalo, ʻili, a holo pōʻai paha e hōʻike i ko lākou hauʻoli i kou hoʻi ʻana mai. He hōʻailona kēia ua hala lākou iā ʻoe a hauʻoli lākou e ʻike hou iā ʻoe. He mea maʻamau kēia ʻano i nā ʻīlio e hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa hoʻokahi a i ʻole ka hopohopo kaʻawale. Inā hōʻike kāu ʻīlio i kēia ʻano ke hoʻi ʻoe i ka home, he hōʻailona ia e pili pono ana iā ʻoe.