Mary Allen
Pōkole a ʻīlio paha? Ua hopohopo kēia nīnau i nā mea mālama holoholona ma nā kahua hoʻomoana ʻelua mai ka wā i hoʻomaka ai mākou e mālama i nā ʻīlio a me nā pōpoki ma ke ʻano he holoholona. Akā ʻaʻohe pane kūpono i ka nīnau inā ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā ʻīlio a i ʻole nā pōpoki. A i ʻole ia? Hoʻomaka kāu honua holoholona i ka hoʻohālikelike.
ʻO ka mea mua: ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole hiki ke ʻōlelo ʻia he aha nā ʻano holoholona i "ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi" - ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻo nā ʻīlio a me nā pōpoki ʻelua mau ʻano like ʻole. A he aha ke ʻano o ka "maikaʻi"? ʻOiai makemake kekahi e hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa ma waho a hele i kahi ʻīlio, makemake paha kekahi e hoʻolimalima i kā lākou ahiahi me kahi pōpoki purring ma ka sofa.
A ʻaʻole kēia he clichés wale nō: hōʻike ʻo "Psychology Today" i kahi noiʻi a nā mea noiʻi i loiloi a hoʻohālikelike i nā ʻano pilikino o nā mea nona nā ʻīlio a me nā pōpoki. ʻO ka hopena: he poʻe kaʻawale nā pōpoki. ʻO ka poʻe ʻīlio, ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, he maʻalahi a maʻalahi.
No laila me he mea lā e koho nā kānaka i kā lākou mau holoholona ma muli o ko lākou pono. Eia nō naʻe, aia kekahi mau ʻano i hiki ke hoʻohālikelike ʻia nā ʻīlio a me nā pōpoki - me ka laʻana, ka lohe ʻana, ka ʻono, ka manaʻolana o ke ola, a i ʻole ke kumukūʻai.
Ka Manaʻo Naʻau o nā ʻīlio a me nā pōpoki i ka hoʻohālikelike
E hoʻomaka kākou me ka manaʻo o nā ʻīlio a me nā pōpoki. Ua ʻike maopopo ʻia he ʻano ihu ko nā ʻīlio – ʻike nui ka poʻe i kēia, ʻoiai ʻaʻole kā lākou ʻīlio ponoʻī. Eia nō naʻe, i ka hoʻohālikelike ʻia me nā ʻīlio, he ʻumi ʻumi nā pōpoki i mua: Hiki i nā pōpoki ke ʻike i ka nui o nā ʻala like ʻole.
I ka lohe ʻana, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā pōpoki ma mua o nā ʻīlio i ka hoʻohālikelike ʻia – ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole hōʻike mau nā kitties iā ʻoe. ʻOi aku ka lohe o nā ʻano holoholona ʻelua ma mua o kākou nā kānaka. Akā hiki i nā pōpoki ke lohe kokoke i hoʻokahi octave ma mua o nā ʻīlio. Eia kekahi, ʻelua paha ko lākou mau ʻiʻo i loko o ko lākou mau pepeiao e like me nā ʻīlio, a no laila hiki iā lākou ke kuhikuhi pono i kā lākou eavesdroppers i ke kumu o ka walaʻau.
I ka wā e ʻono ai, ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, aia nā ʻīlio ma mua o ka pāʻani: aia ma kahi o 1,700 mau ʻono ʻono, nā pōpoki ma kahi o 470 wale nō. ʻaʻohe mea ʻono.
Ma ke ʻano o ka hoʻopā ʻana a me ka ʻike maka, akā naʻe, ʻoi aku ka like o nā ʻīlio a me nā pōpoki: ʻoi aku ka ākea o nā ʻīlio, ʻike i nā kala ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, a hiki ke ʻike maikaʻi ma kahi lōʻihi. ʻO nā pōpoki, ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻoi aku ka ʻoi aku o ka ʻike ma kahi mamao pōkole a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka ʻike ma mua o nā ʻīlio i loko o ka pōʻeleʻele - a mahalo i kā lākou ʻumiʻumi, ua loaʻa i nā ʻīlio a me nā pōpoki ke ʻano maikaʻi o ka naʻau.
ʻOi aku ka lōʻihi o ke ola ʻana o nā pōpoki ma mua o nā ʻīlio
No ka nui o nā mea mālama holoholona, ʻo ka nīnau o ka nui o ka manawa e hiki ai iā lākou ke hoʻolilo me kā lākou pipi aloha ʻaʻole ia he mea nui ʻole. ʻO ka pane: ʻoi aku ka nui o nā makahiki o nā pōpoki ma mua o nā ʻīlio. No ka mea, ʻoi aku ka lōʻihi o ke ola o nā kitties: ola nā pōpoki ma ka awelika 15 mau makahiki, i nā ʻīlio ma ka awelika ʻumikūmālua.
ʻO nā kumukūʻai no nā ʻīlio a me nā pōpoki i ka hoʻohālikelike
ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole ʻo ka nīnau kālā ka mea nui loa no nā mea aloha holoholona maoli - akā ʻoiaʻiʻo, pono e noʻonoʻo ʻia ke kālā e pono ai no kahi holoholona ma mua o ke kūʻai ʻana. A i ʻole, holo ʻoe i ka pilikia e kahaha ʻia e nā kumukūʻai ʻike ʻole.
ʻO nā pōpoki a me nā ʻīlio ke kuleana no kekahi mau lilo makahiki no kā lākou mea nona. Ma ka hoʻohālikelike pololei, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā pōpoki: i ka wā o ko lākou ola ʻana, ua kūʻai lākou ma kahi o $12,500, ʻo ia hoʻi, aneane $800 i kēlā me kēia makahiki. No nā ʻīlio, aia ma kahi o $14,000 i ko lākou ola ʻana a pēlā ma kahi o $1000 i kēlā me kēia makahiki.
Ka hopena: Ma ka hapa nui o kēia mau wahi, aia nā pōpoki i mua. ʻO ka mea hope loa, ʻo ka nīnau inā makemake ʻoe e loaʻa i kahi ʻīlio a i ʻole ka pōpoki, akā ʻoiaʻiʻo nō ke kumuhana a hilinaʻi ma luna o nā mea āpau i kāu mau pono a me kāu makemake. ʻO ka mea aloha ʻīlio maoli ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻomaopopo ʻia e ka pōpoki ʻoiai nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa āpau - a ʻo ia hoʻi.