Mary Allen
Ke nahu kou pōpoki iā ʻoe, ʻaʻole pinepine ia he hōʻailona o ka ʻino. I kekahi manawa, he pāʻani wale kāu puʻu - a i ʻole ua lawa kāu mau pā. Akā he aha ke ʻano o ka nibble palupalu? Loaʻa i kāu honua holoholona ka pane.
Aia kekahi ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka nahu a me ka nahu? ʻAe - ma ka liʻiliʻi loa me nā pōpoki: ʻOiai ʻoi aku ka hopena o ka nahu ʻino ma muli o ka makaʻu, pale, a i ʻole ka hana ʻāina, hiki i nā kitties ke nahu kokoke me ke aloha. Ma ka ʻōlelo Pelekania, ʻōlelo kekahi i ka "love bites", ʻo ia hoʻi, ʻo ke aloha nahu.
Ua kamaʻāina paha ka poʻe nona nā pōpoki i kēia ʻano: ua ʻili wale lākou i ko lākou mau wāwae velvet me ka maluhia, malia paha e pipi nui ana iā lākou - a hikiwawe ke nahu lākou i ko lākou manamana lima a i ʻole ko lākou lima. ʻO ka hapa nui o ka manawa ke kuʻi ʻo ia i kekahi mea, akā ʻaʻole ia e hopena i ka ʻeha koko.
Akā, no ke aha e nahu ai ka pōpoki i ka wā i hauʻoli ai ʻoe? He mea maʻalahi ka pane: Ua lilo paha kou manaʻo i mea nui no ka pipi.
ʻO ka huaʻōlelo "love bite" ke kuhi hewa nei. No ka mea, ʻoiai inā pili ke aloha i ka pāʻani mua a i ʻole ka puliki ʻana, he hōʻailona maopopo ka nahu: Ua lawa i kēia manawa.
He mea pupule ia i ka wā mua, akā ʻo ka nui o nā paʻi hiki ke hōʻoluʻolu i nā pōpoki. ʻO ke kumu o kēia ka mea i kapa ʻia ʻo "caress-induced over-stimulation". "Hiki i nā mea hoʻokipa lauoho lauoho ke lawe i kahi nui o ka petting ma mua o ka ʻeha," i haʻi aku ai ʻo Jackson Galaxy, kahi loea holoholona holoholona, i ka Sydney Morning Herald.
I ka nahu aloha o ka popoki – a i kona nahu ʻino ʻana
Pehea ʻoe e hoʻokaʻawale ai i nā nahu koʻikoʻi mai kēlā mau mea akahele? ʻOi loa ma ka pōʻaiapili: "Hoʻomaka ia me ka licking, e lilo ana i mea ikaika a hiki i ka wā e ʻike ai ʻoe i nā niho liʻiliʻi," wehewehe ʻo Kauka Wailani Sung i ka "PetMD". Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole hōʻike ka pipi i nā ʻano hana ʻino ʻē aʻe, e like me ka hoʻohuhū ʻana, ka ʻōhumu ʻana, a me ke ʻoki ʻana. "ʻO ka mea maʻamau, ʻoluʻolu loa ka ʻōlelo kino holoʻokoʻa o ka pōpoki, ʻoiai hiki ke lilo i mea ʻuʻuku ma mua o ka nahu ʻana," wahi a Kauka Liz Stelow.
ʻAʻole pono e hele i kēlā mamao, akā naʻe: Hōʻike mua kāu pōpoki ʻaʻole maikaʻi. Eia kekahi laʻana, ma ka hoʻonui ʻana i kona mau maka a i ʻole ke kau ʻana i kona mau pepeiao. Inā ʻike ʻoe i kēia mau hōʻailona, e waiho wale i kāu pipi - a maikaʻi ʻoe.
He mea nui hoʻi ʻaʻole e hoʻopaʻi i ka pōpoki. ʻOiai ʻo ia paha kāu pane mua: ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e kiola i ka pipi, lulu a hopu paha ma ka ʻāʻī. Hiki i kēia ke hopena i ka hana ʻana o kāu pōpoki me ka huhū maoli - a hoʻoweliweli.
Wahi a Karen Becker, aia kekahi ʻano "love bite": ka nahu pāʻani. Ke pāʻani wale nei kekahi mau keiki pipi me ka huhū a me ka hauʻoli. ʻO ia hoʻi, ua nahu pāʻani lākou i ko lākou mau kaikaina. Hōʻike pū kekahi mau kitties i kēia ʻano i kā lākou kanaka - akā ʻaʻole no ka mea ua lawa lākou, akā, no ka mea, makemake lākou i ko mākou nānā a makemake e pāʻani pū me mākou.
I ka hopena, pili ia i kou hoʻomaopopo pono ʻana i kāu paw velvet a pehea ʻoe e wehewehe ai i kā lākou ʻano. ʻOi aku ka ʻoi aku o kou naʻau i ko lākou ʻano, ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o nā kuhi hewa - a ʻo ka liʻiliʻi o ka manawa e nahu ai kāu pōpoki iā ʻoe no kēlā me kēia kumu.