Mary Allen
Aia nō nā cliché kāne kāne ma ke aupuni holoholona. ʻO ka laʻana maikaʻi loa: he nīnau e pili ana i ka ʻīlio. No ka mea, ma ke kumumanaʻo, nā kāne wale nō e hana. Pono ʻoe e hopohopo inā hāpai kāu wahine i kona wāwae i luna e pipi?
Ke mimi nā kāne, hoʻokiʻekiʻe lākou i ko lākou mau wāwae - ʻo ka nui o ka poʻe ʻīlio ʻole i ʻike i kēia. Kūlou maʻamau nā wāhine. ʻO ka liʻiliʻi loa he manaʻo. No ka mea, ua ʻike kekahi mau mea nona ka hāpai ʻana o kā lākou wahine i kona wāwae e pee, a ʻo ke kane ke kūlou. No ke aha mai?
ʻO ka mea mua, he mea hoihoi ia ke ʻike i ke kumu e kuʻi ai nā ʻīlio a hāpai paha i ko lākou mau wāwae i ka wā e hoʻokahe ai i kā lākou ʻōpū. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka squatting ka lā i ka wā he ʻīlio - hele ka hapa nui o nā ʻīlio i kā lākou ʻoihana i nā pule mua, me ka nānā ʻole i ke kāne.
Ma kekahi ʻaoʻao, pili pinepine ka hāpai ʻana i kou mau wāwae me ka ʻala. Inā mākaʻikaʻi nā ʻīlio i ko lākou ʻāina, a i ʻole ke kaha ʻana i ka mimi no ke kaumaha a i ʻole e huki i ka manaʻo, ʻo ka hoʻokiʻekiʻe wāwae ke koho maikaʻi loa. ʻO kēia no ka mea hiki iā ia ke kuhikuhi i ke kahe o ka mimi i kahi mea kūpaʻa, e like me ka paia o ka hale a i ʻole ka pā. Hiki i ka mimi ke kahe ma ʻaneʻi, ʻo ia hoʻi ka wahi nui loa a, no laila, ua hoʻonui ʻia ka ʻala.
E mimi nā ʻīlio i ke ala a lākou e makemake ai
Ma muli o ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana o nā kāne i ko lākou ʻāina, ʻoi aku ka pili ʻana o ka hāpai ʻana i ko lākou mau wāwae me lākou. Eia nō naʻe, ke hoʻomau nei kekahi mau kāne i ka squat e mimi, ʻoiai ʻaʻole lākou he ʻīlio. Pēlā nō, hoʻomaka kekahi mau wāhine e hāpai i ko lākou mau wāwae.
ʻO ka manawa pinepine o nā wahine he hui ʻana o ka squatting a hāpai iki i ka wāwae hope. ʻO ka hāpai ʻana paha o ka wahine i kona wāwae hope e pee e pili pū me kona nui. Ke noiʻi nei ʻo Kauka Betty McGuire i ka hoʻopaʻa inoa ʻana i nā ʻīlio. Ua ʻike ʻo ia ʻoi aku ka nui o nā wahine liʻiliʻi e hāpai i ko lākou mau wāwae hope ma mua o nā wahine liʻiliʻi a nui paha.
He aha paha ke kumu? "ʻO kā mākou mau hopena mua e pili ana i ka ʻano urinary a me ka nui o ke kino e alakaʻi iā mākou e hoʻoholo i ka makemake o nā ʻīlio liʻiliʻi e kamaʻilio me ka hoʻohana ʻana i ka hōʻailona mimi, e hiki ai iā lākou ke kamaʻilio me ka ʻole o ka launa pū ʻana," i hoʻopau ai ʻo ia i kāna noiʻi.
He ino anei ke hapai ka'u wahine i kona wawae a pee?
Inā mimi mau kāu ʻīlio me kona wāwae i luna, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hopohopo i kekahi mea i hewa iā ia. He ʻokoʻa kona ʻano inā hoʻololi koke ʻo ia i kona ʻano pipi. Ma ke ala, pili like i nā kāne. Inā mimi ka holoholona ma kahi kūlana ʻokoʻa ma mua o ka maʻamau, hiki iā ia ke hōʻike i ka ʻeha a i ʻole nā pilikia olakino ʻē aʻe.
E uē paha kāu ʻīlio, mimi ʻoi aʻe a emi mai paha ma mua o ka maʻamau, a i ʻole he ʻeha ʻeha? A laila pono e nānā ʻia i ka wā hiki loa, wahi a ke kauka lapaʻau, ʻo Kauka Jamie Richardson.
Eia kekahi, ʻaʻole hiki i kekahi mau ʻīlio ke kuhikuhi pono i ka wā e hāpai ai i ko lākou mau wāwae hope e mimi. I kekahi manawa, komo ka mimi i ko lakou hulu. No ka pale ʻana i kēia mai ka hoʻonāukiuki ʻana i ka ʻili, pono ʻoe e holoi i kāu ʻīlio, no ka laʻana, me kahi ʻōpala a i ʻole kahi kāwele liʻiliʻi i hoʻoheheʻe ʻia me ka wai mahana.