Mary Allen
Poina koke ka poʻe he hiki i nā keiki ke hānai i nā ʻīlio ma kahi pae like. Ke hoʻomanaʻo nei ka noiʻi hou iā mākou i ka pilina kūikawā ma waena o kā mākou mau hoa ʻōpio a me nā wāwae ʻehā.
Loaʻa pinepine nā keiki a me nā ʻīlio i kahi paʻa kūikawā - nui ka poʻe o mākou i ʻike i kēia mai ka ʻike, a kākoʻo ʻia kēia e kekahi mau haʻawina. Eia naʻe, i kekahi manawa ʻaʻohe hoʻomaopopo like. Hana hewa pinepine nā keiki i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kā lākou mau hoa wāwae ʻehā me ka makemake ʻole, a, no ka laʻana, ka pilikia e hoʻouka ʻia nā holoholona iā lākou.
Ua hōʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi hou a nā ʻepekema mai ke Kulanui o Oregon State e hana maikaʻi nā keiki a me nā ʻīlio. No ka mea, ua ʻike lākou ua nānā pono nā ʻīlio i nā keiki a hoʻololi i kā lākou ʻano me nā keiki.
E nānā pono nā ʻīlio i nā keiki
"ʻO ka nūhou maikaʻi e hōʻike ana kēia haʻawina e nānā pono ana nā ʻīlio i nā keiki a lākou e noho pū ai," i haʻi aku ai ʻo Monique Udell, ka mea kākau kumu o ka noiʻi. "Ke pane nei lākou iā lākou a i nā manawa he nui e hana like me lākou, he hōʻailona ia o ka pilina maikaʻi a me ke kumu no nā paʻa ikaika."
I kā lākou aʻo ʻana, ʻike nā mea kākau i nā keiki 30 a me nā ʻōpio, ʻewalu mau makahiki a hiki i 17, me kā lākou mau ʻīlio holoholona i nā ʻano hoʻokolohua like ʻole. Ma waena o nā mea ʻē aʻe, ua hōʻoia lākou e neʻe a kū paha nā keiki a me nā ʻīlio i ka manawa like. Akā, ua nānā pū lākou i ka manawa o ke keiki a me ka ʻīlio i emi iho ma mua o hoʻokahi mika a me ka pinepine o ka ʻīlio i ka ʻaoʻao like me ke keiki.
Ka hopena: Ua neʻe nā ʻīlio ma mua o 70 pakeneka o ka manawa i neʻe ai nā keiki, 40 pakeneka o ka manawa i kū mālie ai nā keiki. Ua hoʻohana wale lākou ma kahi o 27 pakeneka o ka manawa ʻole ma mua o ʻekolu kapuaʻi kaʻawale. A ma kahi kokoke i ka hapakolu o nā hihia, ua kuhikuhi ʻia ke keiki a me ka ʻīlio ma ke ala like.
Hoʻohaʻahaʻa pinepine ʻia ka pilina ma waena o nā keiki a me nā ʻīlio
Hoihoi no nā mea noiʻi: Hoʻololi nā ʻīlio i kā lākou ʻano i nā keiki i loko o ko lākou ʻohana, akā ʻaʻole i like me ka manawa i ko lākou mau mākua makua. "Ke hōʻike nei kēia ʻoiai ʻike nā ʻīlio i nā keiki he mau hoa pili kaiaulu, aia kekahi mau ʻokoʻa e pono ai mākou e hoʻomaopopo maikaʻi.
Eia kekahi laʻana, aia nā haʻawina e hōʻike ana e hiki i nā ʻīlio ke hoʻoikaika maikaʻi i nā keiki. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā keiki i ka nahu ʻīlio ma mua o nā pākeke.
Ke ʻike nei i nā hopena noiʻi, hiki ke loli koke kēia: "Ke ʻike nei mākou he maikaʻi loa nā keiki i ke aʻo ʻana i nā ʻīlio a hiki i nā ʻīlio ke mālama a aʻo mai nā keiki." Hāʻawi i kahi ʻike hoʻonaʻauao koʻikoʻi a maikaʻi no ka makahiki ʻōpio. No ka mea, e like me ka poʻe ʻepekema, "hiki iā ia ke hoʻololi nui i ke ola o ʻolua."