Mary Allen
ʻO ka nīnau hoʻokahi e noho nei i nā mea nona nā ʻīlio a pau: ʻike ʻia kaʻu ʻīlio iaʻu ma ke ʻano he kanaka kuhikuhi?
He nui ko kakou mau kanaka a me na ilio. Ma waena o nā mea ʻē aʻe, koho mākou i nā mea kuhikuhi e kū nei i kā mākou pono e like me ke aloha, palekana, a me ka nānā.
Manaʻo wau ua pae ʻoe ma kēia ʻatikala no ke kumu. Noho paha ʻoe i kahi ʻohana lehulehu, iā ʻoe ka ʻīlio, akā ua koho ʻia kekahi lālā o ka ʻohana i kahu mālama?
E ʻike ʻoe i kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo pehea e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke lilo i ka helu piha 1 i ke ola o kāu ʻīlio.
I ka pōkole: pehea e koho ai kahi ʻīlio i kāna mea mālama?
ʻO nā ʻīlio he manawa kūpono. ʻAʻohe mea ʻē aʻe ma mua o ke koho ʻana i ka mea a lākou e manaʻo ai i nā pōmaikaʻi nui loa.
Inā hāʻawi ke kanaka i kāna hilinaʻi ʻīlio, palekana, huakaʻi, meaʻai, a me ke aloha i ka maikaʻi a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, e lilo koke kēia kanaka i mea pili i ka ʻīlio.
ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka nui ma ʻaneʻi. 'O ia ho'i, he mea maika'i ka manawa i hui 'ia i ka maka o ka 'īlio, he mea pono ia nona a 'ike 'o ia he mea maika'i loa ia me 'oe.
Pehea e koho ai ka ilio i ke kanaka?
Huli nā ʻīlio i nā kānaka e mālama i ko lākou mau pono āpau. ʻAʻole pili kēia i ka mea nāna e hoʻoneʻe a hānai paha i ka ʻīlio, akā nāna e hāʻawi iā ia i ka palekana, ka hoʻolālā, ka hilinaʻi a me ke aloha.
Koho ka ʻīlio i ke kanaka e like me nā pae hoʻohālike e like me ke kanaka kuhikuhi.
Honesty
Loaʻa i nā ʻīlio kahi radar maikaʻi a ʻike koke inā hana ʻoe i kekahi mea me ka hapa puʻuwai a i ʻole.
Inā hoʻolilo ʻoe i ka manawa me kāu ʻīlio, e hana me ka manaʻoʻiʻo, e ʻoliʻoli iā ia a ma luna o nā mea a pau: e noho i ka manawa.
I ka hana ʻana i nā hana me kā lākou hoa ʻehā wāwae, nui ka poʻe nona nā ʻīlio e paʻa wale nei ma ke kelepona hele a ʻaʻole i noʻonoʻo i ke kūlana. Manaʻo kāu ʻīlio i kēia…
Ka palekana a me ka hilinaʻi
Pono kāu ʻīlio e manaʻo e hiki iā lākou ke hilinaʻi iā ʻoe 100%. No ʻoe, ʻo ia ke ʻano o ka hana ʻana i nā makaʻu a me nā pilikia o kāu ʻīlio a hana mau me ia.
ʻO ka hana ʻana a me ka ʻike pū ʻana ʻaʻole wale e hoʻoikaika i ka hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho o kāu ʻīlio, akā, ʻo kāu pili pū kekahi.
ʻO nā lula maʻemaʻe i ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā e hoʻolilo iā ʻoe ma ke ʻano he kahu mālama no kāu ʻīlio. Hiki iā ia ke hilinaʻi iā ʻoe no ka mea ʻike ʻo ia i kāu mea e manaʻo ai a pehea kāu hana.
Ua kūpono loa ka ʻōlelo alakaʻi ma ʻaneʻi. Inā alakaʻi ʻoe i kāu ʻīlio me ka maikaʻi a me ka hilinaʻi, ʻo ia ka mea e ʻike pono ai kāu ʻīlio hiki iā ia ke hilinaʻi iā ʻoe i kēlā me kēia kūlana. Hāʻawi kēia iā ia i ka palekana a me ka hilinaʻi.
ʻO ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka nui
Manaʻo ʻoe e koho ka ʻīlio i ke kanaka e hoʻolimalima nui me ia? ʻAʻole pololei loa kēia. ʻImi nā ʻīlio i ka mea a lākou i ʻike ai e hoʻokō ʻia ko lākou mau pono!
He aha kou manaʻo e ʻoi aku ka hoihoi no kāu ʻīlio: He hele wāwae lōʻihi, kahi e hiki ai iā ia ke hoʻokō i kona makemake e neʻe, a i ʻole kahi pōʻai pōkole pōkole ma kahi āu e pāʻani ai me ia a hana paha i kekahi hana? E like me ka lua. No ka mea, hāʻawi ʻoe i kāu ʻīlio i kāna makemake maoli. ʻAʻole wale ka neʻe ʻana, akā ke hauʻoli hoʻi, ka hana unpredictable a me ka hoʻokūkū.
E ho'āʻo! E kūkulu i kahi mea hoihoi, i ʻike ʻole ʻia i kāu huakaʻi. E ʻike ʻoe i ka maikaʻi o kāu pilina me kāu ʻīlio. No ka mea, ʻike ʻo ia: He ʻoluʻolu! Hiki mai kekahi mea aʻu e hauʻoli ai! He aha ka hope?
ʻO kaʻu ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo: ʻo ke aʻo ʻana i nā mea hou e hoʻoikaika i ka pilina
E ho'āʻo i kahi mea hou me kāu ʻīlio e hauʻoli ai ʻolua! ʻAʻole wale kēia e hoʻopaʻa iā ʻoe, akā he mea leʻaleʻa no ʻolua! No ka laʻana, ua hoʻāʻo paha ʻoe i ka mantrailing?
He mea leʻaleʻa kēia no ka hapa nui o nā ʻīlio. No ka mea he hana noʻonoʻo maʻemaʻe ia, e loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi ʻīlio ʻoluʻolu a luhi ma hope o ke aʻo ʻana.
ʻO ka mea maikaʻi e pili ana i ka mantrailing ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e kūʻai i nā lako he nui. ʻO kahi kāʻei kūpono a me kahi laina huki ua lawa.
Kokoke kino
ʻEhia ka pinepine o kou hānai ʻana i kāu ʻīlio me ka ʻike ʻole i kona wā e moe ana ma hope ou a aia kou manaʻo ma kahi ʻē?
Loaʻa i nā ʻīlio i ko mākou mau manaʻo a ʻike koke i ke koʻikoʻi o kou manaʻo.
Eia naʻe, inā hāʻawi ʻoe i kāu ʻīlio i kou nānā piha i ka wā e hana ana ʻoe me ia, ke hoʻokō nei ʻoe i kona pono no ka pilina a me ka pili. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole kēia manaʻo he pono ʻoe e hānai i kāu ʻīlio 24 mau hola i ka lā!
Akā ʻo ke aloha, ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ma mua o nā mea a pau e hele mai ana mai kou puʻuwai mai, he waiwai nui ka prank i kāu ʻīlio.
Pehea wau e ʻike ai ʻo wau ke kahu o kaʻu ʻīlio?
Inā ʻike kāu ʻīlio iā ʻoe he kanaka kuhikuhi, e kuhikuhi ʻo ia iā ia iho iā ʻoe, ʻoiai ʻo ia ke kūlana. Inā pololei ka hilinaʻi, e huli ʻo ia iā ʻoe i loko o nā kūlana hakakā a me nā pilikia.
Makemake nā ʻīlio e hoʻolimalima manawa kokoke i kā lākou mau kahu. Hoʻomoe pinepine lākou i kahi maluhia a me ka hoʻomaha, me kaʻikeʻana i ka mālamaʻana i nā mea a pau.
Panina
Koho nā ʻīlio i kā lākou mea mālama ma muli o ka mea hiki ke hoʻokō i nā pono āpau. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokō i lilo ʻoe i mea nui o kāu ʻīlio me nā ala maʻalahi.
E hoʻomanaʻo, ʻokoʻa kēlā me kēia ʻīlio a loaʻa nā pono like ʻole. Akā me nā hana i manaʻo ʻia ma kāu ʻaoʻao, hiki iā ʻoe ke komo maʻalahi i loko o ka puʻuwai o kāu ʻīlio!
Ua liʻiliʻi paha kēia ʻike no kēia kumuhana iā ʻoe?