Mary Allen
Aia kekahi mea ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka ʻili ʻana i kāu ʻīlio ponoʻī?
ʻO ka mea pōʻino, ʻaʻole like nā hoa ʻehā wāwae i kēia hoihoi. Makemake kekahi mau ʻīlio e moe hoʻokahi, a moe kekahi ma hope o kekahi mau minuke.
Ma ʻaneʻi hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i nā mea e pono ai ma hope o kēia ʻano, he aha kāu e hana ai e hauʻoli ai kāu ʻīlio i kou pili kokoke a i ka wā e ʻike ai ʻoe i ke kauka holoholona.
I ka pōkole: No ke aha e moe mau ai kaʻu ʻīlio mai oʻu aku nei?
Inā ʻaʻole makemake hou kāu ʻīlio e puliki me ʻoe, hiki iā ia ke loaʻa nā kumu like ʻole - hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohuli i kekahi, pono ʻoe e ʻae i kekahi.
Inā ʻeha kāu ʻīlio, ua hoʻoikaika ʻia paha kēia ma ka hoʻopā ʻana a no laila ua haʻalele ʻo ia iā ʻoe.
I kekahi manawa kokoke mākou e hoʻomāinoino i kā mākou ʻīlio me ko mākou aloha. ʻAʻole loaʻa i kāu ʻīlio ka maluhia ma hope ou no ka mea e pipi mau ana ʻoe a kamaʻilio pū paha me ia? A laila i kekahi manawa, e moe ʻo ia mai ou aku e hoʻoponopono ai i kona hiamoe ʻole.
Hiki i nā ʻīlio ke loaʻa i ke kaumaha a me ka ʻeha. Makemake kēia mau ʻīlio e moe hoʻokahi no ka maikaʻi ʻole o ka hilinaʻi i nā kānaka. Me ka psychologist canine, hiki ke hoʻemi ʻia kēia mau pilikia.
ʻOi aku ka haʻalele ʻana o nā ʻīlio kahiko ma muli o ka piʻi ʻana o ka hoʻomaha. Eia kekahi, hiki i nā pilikia makahiki ke paʻakikī ke piʻi i ka sofa. Me kahi hoʻomaha hoʻomaha ʻole, hāʻawi ʻoe i kāu hoaaloha kahiko i mau manawa maikaʻi.
Ke kaʻawale nei kaʻu ʻīlio mai iaʻu: 4 kumu
Inā makemake kāu ʻīlio e moe hoʻokahi - mai lawe pilikino iā ia!
Akā, e ho'āʻo e ʻimi i ke kumu i makemake ʻole ai kāu ʻīlio e puliki me ʻoe.
Ua helu mākou i nā kumu ʻehā no ʻoe.
1. Na ma'i kino
Inā ʻeha kāu ʻīlio i hoʻomāhuahua ʻia e ka hoʻopā ʻana, e pale ʻo ia i ka moe ʻana ma hope ou.
Nā hōʻailona ʻē aʻe:
- ʻūhā nui
- Hoʻole mau i ka ʻai a i ʻole ka wai
- Ke pale nei i kekahi mau neʻe
- ʻO ka hoʻomaha a i ʻole ka huhū hikiwawe
- ʻO ka liʻiliʻi pinepine ʻana a me ka ʻoki ʻana
- ka makemake ole a me ka palaualelo
- ʻO ka haʻalulu, ka uē ʻana, a i ʻole ka uwē ʻana
Aia paha ma hope o ka ʻeha o kāu ʻīlio.
ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi e hele i ke kauka lapaʻau i ka hikiwawe inā ʻaʻole makemake hou kāu ʻīlio e puliki me ʻoe a hōʻike pū i nā hōʻailona o ka ʻeha.
2. Ka nele o ka hiamoe
Pono nā ʻīlio i ka hoʻomaha nui - ʻaʻole pinepine mākou i ʻike i ka nui. Hoʻomaha nā ʻīlio makua ma kahi o 17 hola i ka lā. Pono nā ʻīlio a me nā ʻīlio kahiko ma kahi o 20 mau hola.
ʻAʻole hiki i kahi ʻīlio koʻikoʻi ke hoʻomaha. A nui nā mea hiki ke pilikia - me ʻoe!
E ʻoiaʻiʻo - ke hoʻopili nei ʻoe me ia i nā manawa āpau ke makemake ʻo ia e moe ma hope ou?
A laila, maopopo ka makemake o kāu ʻīlio e moe hoʻokahi. He mea maikaʻi paha ke aloha ʻia, akā e ʻoluʻolu ʻaʻole i nā manawa a pau.
E hoʻonohonoho i kahi hoʻomaha mālie no kāu ʻīlio kahi e hoʻopilikia ʻole ai kekahi iā ia - ʻaʻole ʻoe. A laila hiki iā ia ke hōʻike maopopo iā ʻoe i ka wā e makemake ai ʻo ia e puliki a i ka wā e pono ai ʻo ia i kona hoʻomaha.
Maikaʻi e ʻike:
ʻO ka mea a mākou e hoʻomaopopo ai he ʻano o ke aloha e hiki ke hoʻoulu i ke koʻikoʻi i nā ʻīlio. ʻO ka pūliki ʻana a me ka paʻi ʻana ma luna o ka ʻīlio he mau ʻano mana ikaika e holo ai ka ʻīlio. I kekahi manawa ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi.
E waiho wale i kou hoa wāwae ʻehā i kona wā e moe ana ma hope ou. ʻO ka 'contact lying' kahi hōʻailona nui o ke aloha.
3. Ke kaumaha a me ka ʻeha
Lawe kekahi mau ʻīlio i nā pūʻolo noʻonoʻo pilikia e hoʻokaʻawale ai ka ʻīlio iā lākou iho.
Nui nā kumu no ke kaumaha:
- ma lalo o ke koi nui ʻana
- kaumaha mau
- hoʻopiʻi kino
- Haʻalele ʻia e ka mea mālama
Inā hele mai kāu ʻīlio iā ʻoe mai ka hānau ʻana maikaʻi ʻole a i ʻole ma ke ʻano he "ʻīlio lima lua" me kahi wā paʻakikī, ua loaʻa paha iā lākou nā ʻike traumatic.
ʻOi aku ka lōʻihi o kona hilinaʻi iā ʻoe. Pono ʻoe e ʻae i kēlā a ʻaʻole e hoʻokuke loa i kāu ʻīlio. A i ʻole e hōʻoia ʻoe i kāna mau kānalua.
Hiki i ka psychologist canine ke kōkua iā ʻoe a me kāu ʻīlio e mālama i nā pilikia olakino.
4. Makahiki
He mea maʻamau ka haʻalele ʻana o nā ʻīlio kahiko mai ka puʻupuʻu o ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā. Pono lākou e hoʻomaha ma mua o ka wā ma mua a no laila makemake lākou e moe hoʻokahi ma ko lākou wahi.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole hiki i ke kupuna wahine a i ʻole ka ʻīlio a ke kupuna kāne ke ʻeleu hou e lele i luna o ka sofa.
E nānā i ka ʻīlio kahiko e ke kauka lapaʻau no nā maʻi pili makahiki.
Inā hiki ke kāpae ʻia kēia mau mea, hāʻawi aku i kāu ʻīlio makua i kahi ʻoluʻolu i kūpono no kona mau iwi kahiko.
Inā kipa ʻo ia iā ia, waiho wale ʻia ʻo ia e nā poʻe ʻohana a pau.
Nā hōʻailona maikaʻi i ka ʻīlio
ʻO kekahi mau ʻīlio ʻoluʻolu loa, ʻaʻole makemake nā ʻīlio ʻē aʻe i ka puliki – aia i kēlā me kēia ʻīlio kona ʻano ponoʻī.
No ka ʻike ʻana i ka makemake o kāu ʻīlio, e ʻimi i nā hōʻailona o ka maikaʻi. Hōʻike kāu ʻīlio i kāna hana maikaʻi ma nā ʻano he nui:
- moe ʻo ia ma kahi kokoke iā ʻoe
- ke hilinaʻi nei ʻo ia iā ʻoe
- ʻolokaʻa ʻo ia
- ke koʻokoʻo i hope a hoʻomaha i ka hapalua o luna
- Huli ʻo ia i kona kua a hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kona ʻōpū e ʻoki
- inā ho'ōki ʻoe i ka pipiʻi ʻana, e noho ʻo ia ma laila a hiki paha iā ʻoe ke hoʻomau iā ʻoe e hele
- ʻO ka paʻi ʻana, ka hū ʻana, a me ke kanikau ʻana he hōʻailona hoʻi e hoʻomaha ana kāu ʻīlio ma hope ou
pāʻoihana
Inā hoʻopunipuni kāu ʻīlio iā ʻoe, e hoʻomaka me ka nānā ʻana i kāu ʻano ponoʻī.
ʻAʻole anei ʻoe e hoʻomaha iā ia i kona wā e moe ana ma kou ʻaoʻao – ma ka hoʻopā mau ʻana iā ia?
Ke hana nei ʻoe i nā mea e hoʻoweliweli iā ia me ka ʻike ʻole - ke kulou nei ʻoe iā ia, ke apo nei ʻoe iā ia?
Inā manaʻo ʻoe ua paʻa ʻoe, e hoʻāʻo e hoʻoemi i kāu ʻīlio mai kēia manawa.
Mai paʻa iā ia, hānai iā ia me nā neʻe maʻemaʻe a e ʻoki i kona ʻāʻī a i ʻole ka umauma. E ʻike i ka lōʻihi a me nā ʻāpana kino e makemake ai kāu ʻīlio e pā.
Inā mālama mau kāu ʻīlio i kona mamao, e nīnau i ke kauka lapaʻau a i ʻole ka ʻīlio psychologist.
mana'o kōkua:
Inā ʻaʻole makemake kāu ʻīlio i ka ʻūlū, e hōʻike aku iā ia i kou aloha ma nā ʻano ʻē aʻe—pāʻani pū, hele i nā huakaʻi, a i ʻole e ʻae iā ia e nahu i ka iwi nau ma hope ou. Inā komo ʻo ia me ka ʻoliʻoli, hiki iā ʻoe ke lawe iā ia i mea hōʻike aloha iā ʻoe.
Panina
Inā moe kaʻawale kāu ʻīlio mai ou aku, ʻaʻole paha ʻo ia e ʻike i ka hoʻomaha āna e pono ai ma hope ou.
Hiki paha kēia ma muli o ka hoʻonui ʻana i ka pono no ka hoʻomaha i ka wā ʻelemakule a i ʻole kahi kiʻekiʻe koʻikoʻi ma muli o ka walaʻau a i ʻole ka nānā mau.
ʻO ke kaumaha a me ka ʻeha a me ka ʻeha kino hiki ke hoʻokaʻawale i kāu ʻīlio iā ia iho.
E ho'āʻo e ʻae i ke ʻano o kāu ʻīlio a e ʻimi i nā hōʻailona maikaʻi. Ma kēia ala e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke ʻike i ka wā e paʻa ana kāu ʻīlio a pono ʻo ia e hoʻomaha.
Inā ʻaʻole makemake hou kāu ʻīlio e puliki me ʻoe a i ʻole hōʻike i nā mea ʻino ʻē aʻe e like me ka pau ʻana o ka ʻai, ka huhū a i ʻole nā hōʻailona ʻeha, pono ʻoe e ʻimi i ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo mai ke kauka lapaʻau.