Mary Allen
Makemake nā ʻīlio i ka ʻike ʻia a aʻo koke i ke ʻano o ka nānā ʻana i kā lākou kanaka punahele. ʻOiai ʻaʻole ʻoi aku ka nui o kāu ʻīlio i ka nānā ʻana, ua maikaʻi. I kekahi manawa makemake ka hoa ʻehā wāwae e kamaʻilio i kekahi mea nui me ia. Eia nō naʻe, inā ʻaʻole i maʻalahi ka hana, hiki ke ala mai nā pilikia no ka mea ua ʻike ʻia ka pipi he mea ʻino.
Mai hoʻohaʻahaʻa i ka manao o na ilio. Inā ʻaʻole lawa ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana o ka ʻīlio, me keʻanoʻole ala mai - a ke koi nui nei ka hoa ʻehā wāwae e haʻi iā ʻoe i kēlā. ʻO nā hewa i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana hiki ke hopena i kāu ʻīlio e haʻi mau ana no ka nānā ʻana. ʻO nā lula maʻemaʻe wale nō ke kōkua ma ʻaneʻi - akā naʻe, hiki i kāu ʻīlio ke hoʻomaopopo iā lākou inā he mau lula "ʻoiaʻiʻo" lākou. ʻO ia hoʻi, ʻaʻole pono lākou e hoʻoheheʻe ʻia e nā ʻokoʻa a me ka like ʻole.
Inā pilikia ka ʻīlio a ʻaʻole i hoʻomaʻamaʻa maikaʻi ʻia, hiki iā ia ke alakaʻi i nā koi nui no ka nānā ʻana mai ka holoholona. Eia ka mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana no ia mea:
E kū'ē i nā hoʻomaka ma o ka hoʻonaʻauao mau
Loaʻa i nā ʻīlio nā ʻano ʻano like ʻole e loaʻa ai kou manaʻo. ʻO ke kumu no ka makemake ʻole, ka ʻimi ʻimi ʻana ua waiho ʻia i ka wā ʻīlio. A laila ka hewa nāʻano ʻO ka hoa ʻehā wāwae ʻaʻole ia he mea hoʻonāukiuki a nani maoli nō. ʻOliʻoli ʻoe i kāu puʻupuʻu hulu liʻiliʻi ke lele ʻo ia ma luna ou? A laila, ma hope e lele ʻo ia ma luna o nā ʻano kanaka āpau e ʻai ʻia.
ʻO ka ʻīlio noi a hoomau i ka papaaina me kona puuwai hoehaeha nānā ʻīlio? Inā loaʻa iā ia kahi nahu ma muli o ia mea, e hoʻāʻo mau ʻo ia. Inā ʻae ʻia kāu ʻīlio e haehae i ka nūpepa mai ka lā ma mua no ka leʻaleʻa a uku ʻia ʻo ia me ka nānā ʻana, ʻaʻole paha ʻo ia e kū i nā faila koʻikoʻi a i nā puke haʻawina home.
He mau laʻana kēia o nā ʻano like ʻole o ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻīlio ia ka hopena i kou ʻīlio ʻaʻole ʻike i ka mea e hana ai a me ka mea e hana ʻole ai. A ʻo ka mea hope loa, hana wale ʻo ia i ka mea e nānā nui ai iā ia, ʻo ia hoʻi, ʻo ia ka mea kūpono loa iā ia. ʻAʻole pili inā he hoaaloha a huhū paha kāu pane. ʻO ka mea nui no nā holoholona ʻo ia ka mālama ʻana iā lākou.
No laila, ʻaʻole ia e loaʻa i ka mea mua, pono ʻoe aia mau e hoʻokō i nā lula me nā ʻīlio nani a ʻaʻole e ʻae i nā ʻokoʻa.
E ʻimi i nā kumu: No ke aha e makemake ai ka ʻīlio e nānā i ka lā āpau?
I kekahi manawa makemake wale nā ʻīlio e hoʻolohe a ʻo ka nānā ʻana o kā lākou kanaka punahele he uku ia no lākou. Ma muli o nā hewa hoʻonaʻauao i ʻōlelo ʻia ma luna nei. Ua lawe ka hana i kona ola pono'ī. Eia nō naʻe, pono e hoʻomaha iki a noʻonoʻo inā ʻaʻohe kumu ʻē aʻe o ka ʻīlio e huki ai iā ia iho.
No ka laʻana, hōʻike pinepine nā hoa ʻehā wāwae i ka pilikia, luhi, a hana ʻole i ka hiki. Hana ʻia kēia no ka mea ʻaʻohe o lākou mea maikaʻi aʻe e hana ai a ʻike lākou ke hana nei lākou i kahi pane ma kāu ʻaoʻao - ʻo ia ka mea e wāwahi ai i ka luhi o ka manawa.
Eia nō naʻe, inā ʻano koʻikoʻi a hopohopo paha kāu ʻīlio, ʻoiai inā haʻalele ʻoe iā ia wale nō, aia paha hoʻokaʻawale hopohopo ma hope ona, makemake ʻo ia e huki i ka manaʻo. Eia kekahi, ho'āʻo nā holoholona maʻi a ʻeha paha e hūnā i ko lākou ʻeha, no laila i kekahi manawa ke hōʻike wale ʻia ko lākou ʻeha ma ke ʻano he hoʻololi i ka ʻano a i ʻole ke ʻano. Inā he kānalua kāu no ka noi ʻana o kāu hoa wāwae ʻehā no ka nānā ʻana a i ʻole makemake ʻo ia e ʻōlelo i kekahi mea, e hele i ke kauka lapaʻau e noho ma ka ʻaoʻao palekana a e nānā iā ia.
Makemake mau ʻo ʻīlio i ka nānā ʻana: Hāʻawi i nā ʻano ʻē aʻe no ka ʻano makemake ʻole
Ke aʻo ʻoe i kāu ʻīlio i ka mea e hana ʻole ai, pono ʻoe e hāʻawi mau i kahi koho no ka ʻano makemake. A i ʻole, ʻaʻole ʻike kou hoa wāwae ʻehā i ke ʻano o ke ʻano a hoʻonāwaliwali ʻia. Eia kekahi laʻana, e aʻo iā ia e hiki iā ia ke nahu i kona iwi nau a pāʻani me ia toys , akā waiho wale i ka pepa, nā kāma'a, a me nā lako. E uku iā ia i kona wā e moe ai i loko o kāna hīnaʻi e hoʻomaha ai ma mua o ka lele ʻana i ka sofa.
Haʻalele i ke ʻano makemake ʻole, uku i ke ʻano maikaʻi
Hiki iā ʻoe ke aʻo i kāu ʻīlio i nā ʻano ʻano ʻē aʻe ma ka haʻalele mau ʻana i nā ʻano ʻino a me ka uku ʻana i nā ʻano maikaʻi. Inā lele mai kou hoa wāwae ʻehā iā ʻoe, e huli aʻe a nānā ʻole iā ia, ʻoiai me ka ʻaoʻao iki. Ke kū mālie kou hoa wāwae ʻehā me nā wāwae ʻehā ma ka honua a i ʻole e noho i lalo, e hahau a hoʻomaikaʻi iā ia. Hāʻawi pū kekahi iā ia i kahi meaʻai. A laila, loaʻa iā ia ka manaʻo no ka hana i makemake ʻia a hoʻopaʻi ʻia - ma o hoʻoikaika ikaika - me ka wehe ʻana o ka nānā inā ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hahai i nā lula.
Eia ka mea nui e noho mau a mau loa. Inā hāʻawi ʻoe i hoʻokahi manawa, e aʻo ana kāu ʻīlio he pono wale ʻo ia e hoʻopaʻapaʻa lōʻihi e loaʻa ai kāna makemake. E ʻoi aku ka ʻino o kāna ʻano ma muli o ka hopena. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e hoʻokō pono i nā lula iā ʻoe iho, e kiʻi i ke kōkua mai kahi ʻike 'īlio trainer or kanaka psychologist.
E mālama i ka ʻīlio & pale i ka luhi
Inā ua hoʻomaʻamaʻa mau ʻoe i kāu ʻīlio a maikaʻi loa kona olakino, ʻo ka luuluu paha ka hewa no ka mea pono ia e nānā. ʻO ka mea kōkua wale nō, ʻo ia ka hoʻomau ʻana iā ia i ʻole e loaʻa iā ia nā manaʻo lapuwale.
No ka laʻana, lawe mai iā ia i ka meaʻai a i ʻole ka pāʻani naʻauao, hoʻomaka i ka haʻuki ʻīlio a aʻo paha iā ia i nā hana hoʻopunipuni. Pono e hoʻololi mau ʻia nā hana i ke ʻano, ke ʻano, nā ʻano ʻano ʻano like ʻole, a me nā makemake o kāu ʻīlio a ʻaʻole hoʻoikaika a maʻalahi hoʻi.