Mary Allen
Introduction: Ka pilina ma waena o nā ʻīlio kāne a me nā ʻīlio wahine
He holoholona pilikanaka ka ilio, a paʻakikī ko lākou pilina me kekahi. ʻO nā ʻīlio kāne a me nā ʻīlio wahine, he ʻano hoʻoikaika kūʻokoʻa i hoʻopili ʻia e nā kumu like ʻole. I ka wā o ka hoʻoulu ʻana, hana nui nā ʻīlio kāne i ka hoʻomomona ʻana i nā hua o ka ʻīlio wahine. Eia naʻe, ke hāpai ka ʻīlio wahine a hānau i nā ʻīlio, hiki ke loli ke kuleana o ka ʻīlio kāne.
Ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ke ʻano pale o nā ʻīlio wahine
He ʻano makuahine ikaika ko nā ʻīlio wahine a mālama nui i kā lākou mau ʻīlio. E hoʻoikaika nui lākou e hōʻoia i ka palekana a me ka maikaʻi o kā lākou mau keiki, ʻoiai inā ʻo ia ka mea e hoʻokomo iā lākou iho i kahi pōʻino. Hoʻokumu ʻia kēia instinct i ka nahele hihiu, kahi e pono ai ka pale ʻana i kā lākou ʻōpio no ke ola. E pale ikaika nā ʻīlio wahine i kā lākou mau ʻīlio mai nā hoʻoweliweli, me nā ʻīlio ʻē aʻe, nā kānaka, a me nā mea ʻaihue.
Nā kuleana o nā ʻīlio kāne i ke kaʻina hana hānai
He koʻikoʻi ko nā ʻīlio kāne i ke kaʻina hana hānau, no ka mea, ʻo lākou ke kuleana no ka hoʻomomona ʻana i nā hua o ka ʻīlio wahine. I ka wā e hāpai ai ka wahine, ʻaʻole maopopo loa ke kuleana o ke kāne. Hiki i kekahi mau ʻīlio kāne ke hoʻomau i ka pale ʻana i ka wahine a me kāna mau ʻīlio, aʻo nā mea ʻē aʻe e nalowale loa ka hoihoi. He mea nui e hoʻomaopopo ʻaʻole e hele nā ʻīlio kāne a pau i ka wā o ka hānau ʻana a i ʻole ka wā mua o ka wā ʻīlio.
Hiki i nā pilikia no nā ʻīlio hānau hou me nā ʻīlio kāne
ʻOiai ke pale mau nei nā ʻīlio wahine i kā lākou mau ʻīlio, ʻaʻole hiki ke ʻōlelo ʻia i nā ʻīlio kāne. Manaʻo paha kekahi mau ʻīlio kāne i nā ʻīlio he mea hoʻoweliweli i ko lākou noho aliʻi ʻana a i ʻole ʻaʻole makemake iki iā lākou. I kekahi mau hihia, hiki i nā ʻīlio kāne ke hoʻopilikia i nā ʻīlio, me ka manaʻo ʻole a i ʻole. He mea nui e hana i nā hana e hōʻoia i ka palekana o nā ʻīlio i mua o nā ʻīlio kāne.
Nā mea e hoʻoikaika ai i ka hana a nā ʻīlio kāne i nā ʻīlio
Hiki i kekahi mau mea ke hoʻololi i ka hana a nā ʻīlio kāne i nā ʻīlio hānau hou. Hoʻopili kēia i ka ʻīlio, ka makahiki, ke ʻano, a me nā ʻike i hala me nā ʻīlio. Hiki paha i kekahi mau ʻīlio kāne ke ʻoluʻolu a hānai i nā ʻīlio, aʻo nā ʻīlio ʻē aʻe i ʻoi aku ka huhū a ʻaʻole makemake paha. He mea nui e noʻonoʻo i kēia mau mea i ka hoʻolauna ʻana i nā ʻīlio kāne i nā ʻīlio hānau hou.
Nā pane maʻamau o nā ʻīlio kāne i nā ʻīlio hānau hou
Hiki ke ʻokoʻa nā pane o nā ʻīlio kāne i nā ʻīlio hānau hou. Hiki i kekahi mau ʻīlio kāne ke hoʻomalu koke i nā ʻīlio, ʻoiai ʻaʻole hoihoi iki kekahi. I kekahi mau hihia, hiki i nā ʻīlio kāne ke hoʻāʻo e hōʻino i nā ʻīlio. ʻO ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ka pane maʻamau o nā ʻīlio kāne i nā ʻīlio hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e kali i nā pilikia e hiki mai ana a hana i nā hana e pale ai iā lākou.
Nā ʻanuʻu e hōʻoia i kahi kaiapuni palekana no nā ʻīlio hānau hou
No ka hōʻoia ʻana i ka palekana o nā ʻīlio hānau hou, he mea nui e mālama i kekahi mau mea i ka wā e hoʻokomo ai iā lākou i nā ʻīlio kāne. ʻO kēia ka mālama ʻana i nā ʻīlio a me nā ʻīlio kāne e kaʻawale a hiki i ka nui o nā ʻīlio e pale aku iā lākou iho, ka nānā pono ʻana i ka pilina ma waena o nā ʻīlio, a me ka hāʻawi ʻana i kahi wahi palekana a paʻa i nā ʻīlio e ulu a ulu.
Pehea e hoʻolauna ai i nā ʻīlio kāne i nā ʻīlio hānau hou
Pono e hana mālie a akahele ka hoʻolauna ʻana i nā ʻīlio kāne i nā ʻīlio hānau hou. He mea nui ka ʻae ʻana i ka ʻīlio kāne e kamaʻāina i ke ʻala o nā ʻīlio ma mua o ka ʻae ʻana i ka pilina pololei. I ka hoʻolauna ʻana i ka ʻīlio kāne i nā ʻīlio, he mea nui ia e hana i loko o kahi kaiapuni me ka nui o ka nānā ʻana.
Ka nānā 'ana i ka pilina o nā ʻīlio kāne me nā ʻīlio hānau hou
Ke hoʻolauna ʻia nā ʻīlio kāne i nā ʻīlio hānau hou, pono e nānā pono i kā lākou mau pilina. Hoʻopili kēia i ka nānā ʻana i nā hōʻailona o ka huhū, e like me ka uwē ʻana, ka ʻūhū, a i ʻole ka nahu ʻana, a me ke komo ʻana inā pono. He mea nui nō hoʻi e hōʻoia ʻaʻole e hoʻopōʻino wale ka ʻīlio kāne i nā ʻīlio ma ke hehi ʻana a kikeke paha.
Ka Hopena: Nā ʻīlio kāne a me nā ʻīlio hānau hou - He Kaulike Maʻemaʻe
ʻO ka pilina ma waena o nā ʻīlio kāne a me nā ʻīlio hānau hou hiki ke lilo i mea kaulike maʻalahi. ʻOiai ʻo kekahi mau ʻīlio kāne e pale a mālama i nā ʻīlio, hiki i kekahi ke hoʻopilikia i nā ʻīlio. ʻO ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i nā pilikia kūpono a me ka hana ʻana i nā hana e hōʻoia i ka palekana o nā ʻīlio e hiki ke kōkua i ka hōʻemi ʻana i ka pōʻino. Ma ka hoʻokomo pono ʻana i nā ʻīlio kāne i nā ʻīlio hānau hou a me ka nānā pono ʻana i kā lākou launa pū ʻana, hiki ke hana i kahi wahi palekana a hānai no nā mea āpau.