Mary Allen
Wahi a ka cliché, he "lede popoki pupule" he nui nā pōpoki i noho hoʻokahi ʻo ia. ʻO kēia cliché he mea hoʻonui. Akā aia kekahi mau ʻano ʻē aʻe e pili ana i nā wahine pōpoki pupule. ʻEhia o kēia mau mea āu e hana ai?
ʻO wai ka mea pupule i nā pōpoki? ʻO mākou maoli! ʻO ke kiʻi o ka "wahine pupule pupule" i hana mua ʻia e nā moʻolelo e like me The Simpsons. ʻO ka maʻamau, ua manaʻo ʻia ka wahine pōpoki pupule ma ke ʻano he wahine ʻelemakule iki, hoʻokahi wahine ʻaʻole i loaʻa ka nui o nā pilina pili ma waho o kāna mau pōpoki. ʻO kēia cliché he mea hoʻonui loa. ʻO ka manawa pinepine, aia nā ʻano ʻē aʻe o nā mea nona nā pōpoki i pili pū me "Crazy Cat Ladies". Ua hōʻiliʻili mākou i kekahi o lākou.
Pono e hoʻomaopopo ʻia kēia hōʻiliʻili me ka wink. ʻAʻohe kanaka e hoʻokō i kēia mau ʻano he pupule! Akā, ʻo ia hoʻi, makemake ʻoe i nā pōpoki ma ke ʻano nui, a me kāu pōpoki, a makemake ʻoe e hauʻoli iā lākou—a ʻaʻohe hewa i kēlā, ma hope o nā mea a pau. Aia paha kekahi wahi o ka "Crazy Cat Lady" i kēlā me kēia mea nona ka pōpoki. ʻEhia mau helu pili iā ʻoe?
Cliché 1: Kiʻi kekahi wahine pōpoki i nā kiʻi o kāna pōpoki. Nui nā kiʻi.
He kumu kiʻi maikaʻi wale nō nā pōpoki. No laila ʻaʻole ia he mea kupanaha ke ʻano like nā kiʻi kiʻi ma nā kelepona paʻa o nā mea nona nā pōpoki me kā mākou laʻana: nā kiʻi pōpoki a hiki i ka ʻike maka. Akā no ke aha ʻaʻole? ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke lawa ka hoʻomanaʻo! A inā he pupule kēlā no nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole ia he mea nui!
Cliché 2: Hoʻohana ka Lede Cat i kāna pōpoki
Ua lohe paha ʻoe i nā huaʻōlelo e like me "I kēia lā ua ʻae kaʻu pōpoki iaʻu e hiamoe i loko" a i ʻole "Pono wau e hoʻi i ka home, pōloli kaʻu pōpoki"? No ka poʻe o waho, ʻano "pupule" paha ia mau ʻōlelo i kēlā me kēia manawa. No laila, ʻo kahi cliché e pili ana i nā wahine pōpoki pupule, ʻo ia ka hoʻokanaka ʻana i kā lākou mau pōpoki - ke kamaʻilio ʻana a i ʻole iā lākou e like me ke kanaka a i ʻole kā lākou pēpē.
'Ōlelo mākou: Pono nā pōpoki e noho mau i nā pōpoki. ʻO ia hoʻi: ʻO ka hana kanaka ma ke ʻano o ka "kamaʻilio e pili ana a i ʻole me ka pōpoki" maikaʻi loa a laha loa i waena o nā mea nona nā pōpoki. Hiki pinepine kēia i kou noho ʻana me ka pōpoki. ʻO ka hana kanaka ʻana i ka pōpoki i hiki ʻole iā ia ke hana hou i kāna ʻano maʻamau, no ka laʻana, ʻomi ʻia i loko o nā lole, hele lōʻihi loa.
Cliché 3: He kiʻi pōpoki ko kekahi wahine pōpoki ma nā wahi a pau
Nā kiʻi o kāu pōpoki ponoʻī. Loaʻa i kēlā me kēia mea nona ka pōpoki i ka nui. Hoʻokahi ʻano hana i pili pinepine ʻia me kahi "Crazy Cat Lady" ke kau nei i kēia mau kiʻi ma nā ʻano wahi āpau. Inā he hihia kelepona paʻa paha, he pillowcase, ma ka mug, ma ke kelepona paʻalima a i ʻole ka papa kuhikuhi, a i ʻole ma ke ʻano maʻamau e like me ke kiʻi ma ka paia: Wahi a ka cliché, ʻaʻohe wahi no ka "wahine pōpoki pupule" kahi kiʻi o kāna pōpoki ʻaʻohe wahi.
Cliché 4: ʻOi aku ka makemake o kahi wahine pōpoki e hoʻolimalima manawa me kāna pōpoki ma mua o ka poʻe
Ua makemake paha ʻoe i kahi ahiahi ʻoluʻolu me kāu pōpoki a me ka sofa i kahi ahiahi me kāu mau hoaaloha? Wahi a ka cliché, ʻo "nā wahine pōpoki pupule" e noho mehameha a hoʻolilo i ka hapa nui o ko lākou manawa me kā lākou mau pōpoki. Akā, inā he pōpoki kāu, e noho mau ana ʻoe i ka hui maikaʻi!
Cliché 5: Kūʻai ʻia kahi Lede Сat i nā lole me kahi paʻi popoki
I kou heluhelu ʻana i ka huaʻōlelo "Crazy Cat Lady", ua noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe i kahi wahine e ʻaʻahu ana i ka ʻaʻahu me kahi kumu pōpoki? He cliché hoʻi kēia o ka wahine pōpoki pupule: makemake ʻo ia i nā pōpoki a me nā ʻaʻahu like. 'Ōlelo mākou: pehea? He ʻokoʻa ka ʻono. ʻO ka poʻe makemake i nā lele lele, luna, a i ʻole nā pūkuʻi me nā kumu pōpoki e ʻaʻahu iā lākou!
Cliché 6: Hoʻokumu kahi Lede Popi i nā moʻolelo Media Social no kāna pōpoki
He moʻolelo Facebook a Instagram paha no ka pōpoki? He nui paha ka poʻe e kapa i kēlā "pupule". ʻIke maikaʻi nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e kaʻana like i kā lākou mau kiʻi pōpoki nani me ka honua ma kēia ʻano. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he nui kāu o lākou! I kēia mau lā, akā naʻe, ʻaʻole ia he mea maʻamau ka loaʻa ʻana o nā holoholona i kā lākou ʻaoʻao pili pūnaewele. ʻAʻole wale nā mea nona nā pōpoki e hana i kēia, akā nā mea nona nā ʻīlio a me nā holoholona ʻē aʻe. No laila ʻaʻole ia he "pupule" - he manaʻo wale nō.
Cliché 7: Hoʻoholo ka Cat i kahi e hele ai
He mau ʻīlio ko nā ʻīlio, he koʻokoʻo ko nā pōpoki: ʻo ia ka ʻōlelo ma nā hale pōpoki he nui. Wahi a ka cliché, ʻaʻohe pilikia no nā wahine pōpoki pupule! ʻO ka manaʻo hoʻohaʻahaʻa iā lākou: Hoʻopilikia maoli lākou i kā lākou mau pōpoki. ʻAʻole makemake hou ka pōpoki i kāna ʻai? A laila e loaʻa hou iā ia kekahi! A ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke lawa i nā pāʻani pōpoki. Makemake pinepine nā pōpoki. A ma ke ʻano he mea nona ka pōpoki aloha, hoʻololi ʻoe i nā maʻamau o ka pōpoki i kēlā me kēia manawa…
ʻO kā mākou hopena: ʻo ka mea maʻamau no nā mea nona nā pōpoki i kekahi manawa he mea pupule paha i ka poʻe o waho. No laila, hoʻokō paha ka nui o nā mea popoki i kekahi a i ʻole kekahi cliché e pili ana i ka wahine pōpoki pupule. ʻO ia ke kumu ʻaʻohe kanaka pupule. Ua ʻike ʻia e nā mea noiʻi ma ke Kulanui o Kaleponi ma kahi noiʻi ʻaʻole kumu ʻole ka manaʻo kuhi hewa o ka wahine mehameha me nā pōpoki he nui: ʻaʻole i loaʻa ka "Crazy Cat Lady". Eia naʻe: ʻo wai ka mea e ʻōlelo he wahine pōpoki mau…