Mary Allen
He mea koʻikoʻi ka hoʻonaʻauao ʻana no nā ʻīlio: ma kekahi ʻaoʻao, ʻo ka mālama makua maikaʻi e hōʻoia i ka pale ʻana i nā ʻīlio mai ka pōʻino, ma kekahi ʻaoʻao, ʻaʻole lilo ka ʻīlio i mea pōʻino i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Akā, ʻoiai nā kula o ka hānai ʻīlio a me ka nui o nā palapala kūikawā, nui nā mea nona nā mea e hoʻomau nei i nā hewa like.
Miske 1: ʻAʻole kanaka ka ʻīlio
ʻO kahi hewa punahele o nā mea nona nā ʻīlio a pau, ʻo ia ka hana kanaka i kā lākou mau hoa wāwae ʻehā. ʻO ka lili, ke kaumaha, ke aloha, ka hauʻoli, ka huhū: hauʻoli wale mākou e hōʻoiaʻiʻo iā mākou iho e ʻike kā mākou ʻīlio a hōʻike i nā manaʻo like me mākou. A, ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻoiaʻiʻo paha kēia ma kekahi mau wahi, akā ʻaʻole i nā mea he nui.
Inā makemake ʻoe e hānai i kahi ʻīlio, pono ʻoe e hoʻomanaʻo mau ʻaʻole ia e hana a hana i ke kanaka, i ʻole e piʻi koke nā manaʻolana. A nui ka hoka.
Mistake 2: ʻAʻole he koho ka hana ʻino
ʻAʻole pili loa ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻīlio me ka hana ʻino. Inā makemake ʻoe e hoʻomaʻamaʻa pono i kāu ʻīlio, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e pā iā ia a i ʻole e hoʻouka kino iā ia. He hana lokoino holoholona kēia.
Hiki i nā hoʻopaʻi ke lilo i mea nui i ka hānai ʻana i kahi ʻīlio, akā pono lākou e ʻokoʻa: ʻo ka nānā ʻole ʻana i kāu ʻīlio, hōʻole ʻole i ka uku, a hoʻolei paha iā ia i waho o ka lumi he hoʻopaʻi kupaianaha. ʻO ka ʻīlio makaʻu i kona kahu, ʻaʻole loa ia e hoʻolohe iā ia.
Kuhihewa 3: ʻAʻole kūlike
He mea nui ka hānai mau ʻana no nā ʻīlio. He hewa maʻamau ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana ma waena o nā mea ʻelua: a laila waiho malū lākou i kekahi mea ma lalo o ka pākaukau kīhini a i ʻole, i ka hihia o nā ʻīlio, manaʻo lākou ʻaʻole maopopo iā lākou a pau. He ʻakaʻaka anei ʻoe? Koʻikoʻi ʻoe i kēia!
He akamai loa ka ilio. Hiki i nā ʻīlio ke aʻo: no laila, pono lākou e hoʻomaʻamaʻa mau i kekahi mau pule.
ʻAʻole manaʻo ʻino ke kūpaʻa, akā hilinaʻi - pono ʻoe e hana like i nā ʻano like. Hoʻokumu ia i ka hilinaʻi a me ka manaʻo palekana. Ma kēia ala, ʻike koke kāu mau ʻīlio i kāu mea e makemake ai iā lākou a i ka wā hea.
Kuhihewa 4: ʻAʻohe huaʻōlelo maopopo
Manaʻo ʻia ka ʻīlio he hoaaloha maikaʻi loa no ke kanaka. Ua pololei kēlā, akā e ʻoluʻolu, mai huikau iā ia me kāu hoa aloha: ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e kamaʻilio me ia i ka lā āpau. ʻO kēia wale nō ke kumu o ka nānā ʻole ʻana o ka ʻīlio iā ʻoe. ʻAʻole maopopo ʻo ia iā ʻoe a huhū ke kamaʻilio mau ʻoe iā ia. Akā, pono ʻoe e kālele i ka mālama ʻana i kona manaʻo me nā ʻōlelo a me nā kauoha akaka. E hoʻomaopopo koke ʻo ia i kēia a hana e like me ia.
Inā ʻoe e kamaʻilio i nā manawa a pau, ʻaʻole paha ʻo ia e lohe i nā kauoha. Ke kani ʻino? ʻAʻole. He mea maoli wale nō. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e haʻalele i kāu ʻīlio - e hōʻike iā ia i kou aloha me ke aloha a me ka pāʻani ikaika. Maopopo iā ia kēia. A hana ia i kahi pilina.
Kuhihewa 5: Mai Hoʻonui
ʻOiaʻiʻo: pono, hiki i kāu ʻīlio ke haku i nā kauoha kumu a pau i ka makahiki ʻewalu, a ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā hoʻopunipuni mua. Ma muli o ka nui o kāu hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana me ia, hiki ke hana pū kekahi.
Akā he koho kēia! ʻAʻole pono kāu ʻīlio i ka hoʻoikaika a me ke aʻo ʻana i ka lā a pau. Hāʻawi iā ia i hoʻomaha hoʻomaha no laila e hoʻoikaika nui ʻo ia i ka wā aʻe. Pono ka makua i ka manawa a me ka hoʻomanawanui, a i kekahi manawa ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o kēlā me kēia lāhui. He mea nui wale ʻoe e noho ma ka pōleʻa. Pono ka nānā ʻana i ka leʻaleʻa.
Mistake 6: Halelu, Halelu, Halelu
Inā hana pono kāu ʻīlio, e loaʻa iā ia ka mahalo. ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hewa, ʻeā? ʻO ka hoʻomaikaʻi wahaheʻe he hewa nui i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻīlio. No ka mea, pili ia i ka manawa pololei.
Pono e hoʻomaikaʻi koke ʻia ma hope o ka hana i ʻike ka ʻīlio ua hana maikaʻi ʻo ia. Inā lōʻihi kou kali ʻana, ua hana mua paha ka ʻīlio i kahi mea āu i makemake ʻole ai, a laila pili koke ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana me ka ʻano makemake ʻole. He manawa maikaʻi e hoʻomaikaʻi ai, ʻae, pono e hoʻomaʻamaʻa.